The Battle in My Mind

Every person you meet either deposits or withdraws from you emotionally. After reading the book “How Full is Your Bucket”, I have become more cognizant of how my interactions with  others either add or multiply them or subtract and divide with even the slightest interactions. Likewise, I realize how their energy impacts me. Become aware of your words and the emotional charges they have. Are you building people up or tearing them down? People tend to remember more when there are emotions attached  to an encounter or experience.  Society tends to expect “normalized “  behavior as in “that’s what you’re supposed to do” but place condemnation and emphasis on the “abnormal” and that is the only part that is vocalized. What that means is, doing 99 things correctly, society focuses on the 1 thing that was wrong. You know the mother/father that stays in their kids life and it’s looked at as “that’s what they are supposed to do”, is rarely celebrated. Guess who gets ...

Usually when you hear "watch your mouth" it's used in a context that refers to that of vulgar language. It is important to remember you can never take words back even with extreme efforts to recant statements. Never let anyone get you so angry that you speak words that you may not mean when you calm down ( we can deal with anger in another blog). I agree with the aforementioned concept, however  in this particular blog, I want to take approach it from a different perspective. In this world, one of the most valuable things one possesses is their WORDS . It sounds so cliche hearing " word is bond " but if your word is unreliable what purpose do you serve in my life to even listen to you. Considering every word spoken seems to be a babble of fictitious foolishness creating contractions in my brain.  Let's keep it simple. If you say you are going to do something, do it. If you are incapable or incompetent of carrying it out, just don't make false promi...